Change of plans

Someone use to tell me that it would seriously bum him out when his plans for the day/weekend would fall through. To be perfectly honest, I never understood why it would bother him so much. I use to tell him "it's okay, it's no big deal," and other things. Well, you know what? I had a change of heart, it sucks! Even if plans are only an hour old it's a horrible feeling when they don't come together.

Today for instance, I had last minute plans with a friend, she called me at around 6 and wanted to know if I wanted to grab dinner at 8. Then I went to the mall, but was back by 8, when I called her to finalize our plans, she tells me she was about to go to sleep. WTF?!? Really? Other than the fact that it was barely 8 pm, didn't she think it necessary to call me and tell me she no longer wanted to go out? I of course didn't say anything and just let it slide, but this is the 6th time in past two months that she does this. Other times she isn't feeling well, which I don't know if she's telling me the truth or not, but that isn't important. I can understand if she doesn't want to go out, I get it because there are times I don't want to go out either BUT she shouldn't say that she does and then essentially leave me hanging.

Other times that this has happened, I don't let it bother me too much, I usually make plans else where. But I was particularly bothered this time, and was in no mood to make other plans. Am I being dumb? Well my former self might say that I was, but not anymore. I wonder how many more times this will happen before I get so fed up that I tell her something, or actually do the same thing to her?

On a positive note yesterday on #19 of my birthday list - I'm a perfectionist - I stated that I was rather unhappy with my nails. Well since I had time today (more time then I would have liked) I decided to fix them. They look so pretty now, but since I still need to clean up the edges and I have no idea how long that will take I will not include a picture. But they are black with teal and hot pink polka dots, and yes my toenails match :)